Most of us do not have a caring problem. We care plenty.
We care about our children, our work, our health, our country, our money, our aging parents, our reputation, our future, and whether the thing we are building will actually work. We care so much that we grip. We tighten. We monitor. We rehearse conversations that ended three days ago. We refresh the app, reread the text, rewrite the email, replay the meeting, and call the whole exhausting process responsibility.
But gripping is not the...